It's been 1 week today since we found out about Barry's heart condition and had the procedure to save his life! We have had a birthday, an anniversary, a Thanksgiving feast and celebration, and now a relaxing day ahead to catch up on rest.
We went to the Isaacson's for dinner yesterday and Barry did a great job of resting when he needed to, enjoying the company, eating an almost normal dinner :) and had the longest day out yet. He's taken a couple of walks.
Our kids have been amazing! Jon is taking on a lot of the things Barry needs to put off for awhile. Shannie is calming to her mom and encourages her dad to release his worries and stresses. Michael has become the go to guy when we need to pick up take out or send him to the store for something quick. Anna adds a lot of laughter and joy. Everyone is doing their part to make this work.
The roughest thing yesterday was our visit with Barry's mom. Lawanda was more confused than we have ever seen her. Barry is not telling her about his heart attack. She wouldn't understand and if she did remember it she would worry. It took a lot of Barry's energy to calm and reassure her. Our visit was brief but it took him at least as long as the visit to re-energize himself. We are so thankful she's in such a great place and so well cared for. I explained Barry's situation to her primary caregivers and they were hugely helpful as we left her in their awesome care.
Each day Barry feels a bit better if he has paced his activities and energy well the day before. Our thanksgiving/anniversary was truly our best and most thankful ever! You are all included in our thankfulness. We are so thankful to have your prayers and love so freely given! May each of you feel the blessings returned to you that you are sending our way! Christmas is ahead! Barry's favorite time of year!
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